how to find your style + the confidence to wear it


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  • dying inside y'all
    dying inside y'all  29 minutes back

    My three distinct styles are Billie Eilish, airport fashion and Black Widow vibes but it’s so hard to find clothes like that... :( anybody know any shops or sites that sell these kinda clothes?

    • Urban Arielle
      Urban Arielle  1 hours back

      I don't think I'll ever find "my" style. There are just too many different styles I like and feel comfortable in. (Basically everything that doesn't require highheels xD).

      • carlotta D.
        carlotta D.  1 hours back

        Gosh I love you. Thanks to you I have some inspiration in my life again 🌸🥰

        • Camillia Alexander
          Camillia Alexander  3 hours back

          How do you choose the right colour for your skin tone ? In terms of wardobe , makeup and hair dye ?

          • Maria Victoria Burta
            Maria Victoria Burta  6 hours back

            3:14 *goes and clicks the like button*

            • gabriela 123
              gabriela 123  6 hours back

              New subscriber!!

              • Skitty
                Skitty  7 hours back

                help. The clothes I feel most confident in are pajamas/hobo clothes

                • Temos Life
                  Temos Life  8 hours back

                  I went shopping today and got dress pants to replace jeans- my suster told me i wa
                  S trying to hard and i was going to return everthing tommorow morning. Thank ashley you stopped that from ahppening;)

                  • Name Surname
                    Name Surname  9 hours back

                    I am a guy with a mustache and beard and my sense of style is more gender nonconforming. you're very right when you say that it takes courage to change up your style and wear what you really want to. when I dress the way I want to there is a lot of fear associated with it because I have no idea who I'm going to encounter/what people are going to think when I wear my more traditionally feminine clothing in public. it's not just a change of clothing, it's a change of mindset. it takes a lot to be comfortable in what you are wearing. I hope that by taking your advice and making a gradual change I can start to feel less self-conscious wearing the stuff I really like. I really want to show off my love of fashion and crafting the perfect look, but I don't know how appreciative the people around me will be...

                    • Il- Ameron -lI
                      Il- Ameron -lI  9 hours back

                      fuck it, i’m buying a bunch of scarves and black and white clothing

                      • ijustpostcomments
                        ijustpostcomments  9 hours back

                        Gingham... is the only pattern I don't like 😅

                        • Chimmery Elle
                          Chimmery Elle  9 hours back

                          Are u a Filipina? :)

                          • Eli de Araceli
                            Eli de Araceli  10 hours back

                            idk if that is swear or q really bqd way yo put highlither...

                            • Aidan B
                              Aidan B  10 hours back

                              This is such a good video oml

                              • Lexy Taylor
                                Lexy Taylor  10 hours back

                                Thank you 💕💕💕

                                • Maureen Lawless
                                  Maureen Lawless  11 hours back

                                  The thing I did to get confidant in my fashion choices was finally say " yes, this sweater with the weird ass gigntic leather Chevrons on the chest is hideous,, and I love it" and honestly it was very affirming, to be able to say "this thing is awful and I love it" and honestly that is the positivity I need in my life 👏👏👏

                                  • Nandini Mehta
                                    Nandini Mehta  11 hours back

                                    Shut up UR GORG

                                    • Cream Puff
                                      Cream Puff  12 hours back

                                      My wardrobe is just full of t shirts

                                      • Orleans BeGole
                                        Orleans BeGole  13 hours back

                                        6:04 ig we’re becoming tumblr with the blurring 😔 rip

                                        • Chillona
                                          Chillona  13 hours back


                                          • Its Mia Not Mya
                                            Its Mia Not Mya  13 hours back

                                            okay so what if i dont have money and if i did i have no way at all to go to clothing stores. literally not even like goodwills

                                            • lps_ peachieshiba
                                              lps_ peachieshiba  14 hours back

                                              I have a baby face and if I wear something I like I look like a baby that’s wearing teen clothes

                                              • Kristen
                                                Kristen  14 hours back

                                                literally have always wanted to wear heels to school so thank s for the advice ashley senior year better watch out for me !!!!

                                                • Orleans BeGole
                                                  Orleans BeGole  14 hours back

                                                  ,,,,,,and the money

                                                  • Lovely
                                                    Lovely  15 hours back

                                                    omg I really really needed this. I’ve been trying my hardest to try changing up my style but...of course it’s hard since I don’t have much confidence in myself. I’m still kinda growing and stuff like this, like girly cool and nice stuff isn’t something I’m very confident in wearing since...yeah. I’m scared when people tell me their opinions about what I wear or about who I am. I usually like “brushing it off” to make it seem like I don’t care but I do.

                                                    You see, I’m 13 years old and it’s clear that when your in middle school, people are BOUND to say something but as sensitive as I am, I take it too personally and beat myself down so much where I lose every ounce of confidence and courage and the smallest drop of likeness of my own facial features. But- eh that’s middle school...

                                                    But anyways, it’s super hard to even try changing up my style- I don’t even feel comfortable enough to tell my mom “HEy LETS GO SHOPPING!” or go to a place where there’s a lot of people. I also tend to compare myself to others and it’s started to get out of control now-

                                                    ....welp/..but now that I have this video to help me out..I feel sooo much better. I’m going to use these steps into becoming a better person through fashion. Thank you!!!

                                                    • Maïlys
                                                      Maïlys  15 hours back

                                                      Love from France 💕 keep doing like this it’s so coooool I love your style, your personality and your huge inspiration

                                                      • Lillian Aguirre
                                                        Lillian Aguirre  16 hours back

                                                        So I tracked my clothes like you said and I have names my aesthetic "depressed rainbow" and when I'm done adjusting my wardrobe, I'll move on to my room

                                                        • Aus Mendoza
                                                          Aus Mendoza  16 hours back

                                                          I'm in love with the fact that your speaking speed is super fast asfkfmsl your content is so amazing and you are a lovely person, please keep going on this

                                                          • Sofia Sandfeld
                                                            Sofia Sandfeld  17 hours back

                                                            there is this girl in my class (who is also one of my great friends) that i respect so much. She always wears something weird and original, and even though people give her looks, she is so happy about her style and confident when wearing the clothes she likes. I wish i could wear what ever i want, but i will never be confident enough to do that.

                                                            • Ophelia
                                                              Ophelia  18 hours back

                                                              Hey, I am really struggling finding vintage inspired, fashionable and trendy clothing that is good quality. Most of the time I order stuff online and find that the quality is just really bad. Of course my budget isn't too big either... If you have any suggestions please help?

                                                              • Ophelia
                                                                Ophelia  18 hours back

                                                                Also international shipping? Thanks:)

                                                            • laura W
                                                              laura W  18 hours back

                                                              cool cool but to find my personal style when my office (where i spend 5/7 days in clothes) doesn't even let us wear shorts or skirts higher than 3 inches above the knee or shirts that show off your shoulders???

                                                              • do wang
                                                                do wang  18 hours back

                                                                i love you

                                                                • KatyandAllie
                                                                  KatyandAllie  18 hours back

                                                                  I'm watching this and I just got a notification from instagram saying "Forever 21, Garage, and others shared 12 posts". How do they know. I'm scared.

                                                                  • farah hussein
                                                                    farah hussein  18 hours back

                                                                    Leggings, T-shirt,and cardigan. 🤷🏽‍♀️

                                                                    • Britt Morsink
                                                                      Britt Morsink  18 hours back

                                                                      i am having a 'bestdressed' marathon

                                                                      • Phoebe Althea Shinnea Chun

                                                                        I LOVE YOUR HAIR

                                                                        • Hayoung Cho
                                                                          Hayoung Cho  20 hours back

                                                                          Everyone else: You do you

                                                                          Ashley: Do as you please


                                                                          • hana bye
                                                                            hana bye  20 hours back

                                                                            “fashionable disaster” lmaooo can i cop that for my bio

                                                                            • Natalie Gough
                                                                              Natalie Gough  20 hours back

                                                                              my current style is dangerously close to 12 year old boy from the 80s but I'm not mad

                                                                              • Evelyn Lopez
                                                                                Evelyn Lopez  20 hours back

                                                                                what was the name of the book you found?

                                                                                • Miqmiq Gamo
                                                                                  Miqmiq Gamo  21 hours back

                                                                                  guuuuurl i love you & your content!!! from being a fashion disaster to fashionable disaster..DAMN the glo up i hope to aspire ty for this ❤️

                                                                                  • cristina enriquez
                                                                                    cristina enriquez  21 hours back

                                                                                    i dont have time to shop because
                                                                                    1: parents rush you :,)
                                                                                    2: too many people in store >:[

                                                                                    • Rice Bunny
                                                                                      Rice Bunny  22 hours back

                                                                                      10:50 Introducing life motivation with Ashley

                                                                                      • aneesa
                                                                                        aneesa  22 hours back

                                                                                        thank you for this ashley :^)

                                                                                        • Cat Man
                                                                                          Cat Man  22 hours back

                                                                                          My dads making me throw all of my clothes away to buy new clothes cuz it has been... Years. So this couldn't reappear in my recommendations at a better time.

                                                                                          • Hannah Seaton
                                                                                            Hannah Seaton  22 hours back

                                                                                            You're so inspiring and I aspire to be like you one day!

                                                                                            • Emma Suzanne
                                                                                              Emma Suzanne  22 hours back

                                                                                              I feel like once I’ve ticked off all your steps, I’ll finally have found my style! I’ve started to experience with some fashion items already and even went to school with an all pink overall from UO. In the beginning it was hard and I mean it still is when I step on the bus or wait at the busstop, but this video was so relatable that I think I’ll actually keep experimenting and start feeling more confident. Thank you Ashley :)

                                                                                              • Mvsdancer 510
                                                                                                Mvsdancer 510  22 hours back

                                                                                                Ashley for president 2020